Let’s face it: no one gets everything right in motherhood. You will make mistakes, and the sooner you come to terms with that, the easier things will get.
It’s not because you aren’t trying your best or because you don’t love your child enough. It’s because motherhood is a journey, full of twists, bumps, and yes, the occasional tumble. And just like you’d encourage your little one to fall in order to learn how to walk, it’s important to give yourself the same grace.
Embrace the imperfection
When you become a mom, there’s a lot of pressure to get things perfect—everything from diapering and sleep schedules to feeding and screen time.
The reality is, perfection doesn’t exist in motherhood. Those Pinterest-worthy nurseries and Instagram moms who seem to have it all together? They’re making mistakes, too.
It's okay to feel lost sometimes. Maybe you’ll mix up doctor appointments, or forget to pack an extra onesie, or even burn dinner while trying to juggle your baby's needs. But these missteps don’t define your ability as a mother. In fact, they offer valuable lessons, allowing you to grow in ways you never imagined.
Mistakes are learning opportunities
Think about when your baby first started to crawl. They didn’t just glide across the room effortlessly. They struggled, tumbled, and sometimes got stuck. But through those little falls, they learned, adapted, and eventually mastered the skill. Now, you’re probably chasing after them!
Motherhood is just like that—every mistake is a chance to learn and improve. Maybe you’ll discover that the routine you had planned for bedtime doesn’t work for your baby, or that you forgot to apply the diaper balm before a rash appeared. These "oops" moments are how you find what works best for you and your family.
Let go of the guilt
Moms are often their own harshest critics. We tend to feel guilty for everything—whether it’s not breastfeeding long enough, giving our kids too much screen time, or needing a moment to ourselves.
But here’s the thing: the guilt? It’s unproductive. It doesn’t serve you, and it doesn’t make you a better mom. In fact, it just adds unnecessary stress.
Instead of letting guilt eat away at you, allow yourself to make mistakes. When something goes wrong, take a deep breath, laugh about it if you can, and remind yourself that nobody has it all figured out. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s more than enough.
Teach by example
One of the best gifts you can give your child is the ability to fail and keep trying. You’d never expect your little one to be perfect in everything they do, so why should you hold yourself to that standard? By embracing your own mistakes and showing how you learn from them, you’re modeling resilience, perseverance, and grace.
Your child will see that it’s okay to fall down as long as they get back up. And that’s a lesson far more valuable than perfection.
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Motherhood isn’t about getting everything right; it’s about learning, loving, and growing—just like your child.
So, the next time you make a mistake, remember: it’s all part of the journey. Give yourself permission to stumble, learn, and thrive, because you’re doing an amazing job, flaws and all.